Friendship is a wonderful thing and we sure do love to have friends
around us. however, the idea of friendship could be of a positive or
negative effect, depending on what your type of friends are: Here are
some of the attributes of very good friends that might not seem all very
good.
Friends as this may be hard to find though,however finding such friends as this might limit you from getting better and working things out for yourself, so be sure to go for friends who would do all to protect you but also give you some room to work on yourself.
THEY SHIELD YOU FROM PUBLIC OPINIONS
They try as much as possible to protect you from external voices; even when it feels this is an excellent idea with several benefits, it also has its disadvantages as it limit you from getting a different outlook about life, hence it limits your horizon.THEY BACK YOU UP ALL THE TIME
Yea, good friends try their possible best to stick out for you even when it’s obvious you are not getting it all right. This will make it somewhat difficult to correct some wrongs about yourself and work on your weaknesses.THEY HIDE THE TRUTH FROM FOR FEAR OF GETTING YOU HURT
They don’t want you to feel bad about yourself, so they try to hide certain truths about yourself from you, however, this little truth soon end up in a great rifle between you both when they can’t contain it anymore, hence, they leave you looking all confused.THEY ALWAYS WANT TO PROTECT YOUR FEELINGS
They ever want to hurt your feelings or see you cry so they avoid saying things that could get you in a bad mood, however, this does not in any way help you get better or change your decision making strategies.THEY HELP TO PROTECT YOUR FEELINGS
They try their possible best to help you hide your deepest secrets however this isn’t always a great idea, since their loyalty lies with you.THEY FIND IT EASY TO FORGIVE
Rather than let you know the extent at which you’ve hurt their feelings, they are quick to forgive you. Forgiveness sure is a great virtue but it does not help you to work on yourself; getting things right where wrong.Friends as this may be hard to find though,however finding such friends as this might limit you from getting better and working things out for yourself, so be sure to go for friends who would do all to protect you but also give you some room to work on yourself.
