I was watching a movie about Coast Guard in America , the risky job they do but what caught my attention was the lady in the movie proposing to the guy .
Lady: Will you marry me?
The guy was shock that how will a beautiful lady ask him to marry him , they have known each other for a month.
Guy: No
Lady: Why?
Guy: Don’t know but yes I will marry you because I love you and I need to receive permission from my boss.
Lady: Ok
Guy: When do you want to get marry?
Lady: April 16th
Guy: Fine , April 16th , love you honey.
Lady: Love you too with all my heart.[Smiles ]
We are not living in the generation of our fore fathers , we live in a digital age and improvement are being made daily , our tradition in Africa accept a man proposing to a lady but in this dispensation there is no excuse or reason why a lady cannot propose to the guy she like, my recent post was can a lady express her feelings to a guy? I had 14,000 views on the post. We need to change our mentality.
DEAR MEN,
I was with my close friend victor and he told me that he don’t like to play a woman feeling , he is not that kind of guy. If a lady propose to you , how will you feel? what will be your feedback? will you accept her to be your wife? will you look down on her and insult her?
If you love a lady there will be no excuse why you should not marry her , most single men always blame their reasons for not getting married, environmental condition, background and culture , Finance , until you have a mansion , twenty five million naira before you make a decision of settling down.
DEAR LADIES,
Do not be shy to propose to a man , if he can’t accept your proposal he does not love you , move on and be happy , is not the end of the world, the reason most ladies are not yet married is pride , bad attitude , fear and shyness , Parent , list of what they want in a man.
change your mindset am not saying you should marry a poor man , not everyone will marry a rich man , but marry someone who will love , respect , appreciate and take good care of you.
change your mindset am not saying you should marry a poor man , not everyone will marry a rich man , but marry someone who will love , respect , appreciate and take good care of you.
Your list should be.
God-fearing
Has a skill
Neat
Discipline
Lovable
To most ladies they prefer.
Has a mansion
Buy me an iPhone 7 plus
SEXY with six packs
Rich Background
I will advise you choose the first list it depict a quality of a real man , the second list is vanity upon vanity.
Most marriages are broken because there was no love in the first place it was all about money and luxurious lifestyle , do not allow anyone to discourage you from following your heart , if you have the gut to propose to man you like is not define that you are desperate , it means you are mature and ready to settle down with the man you love.
Go for it and be happy with what your heart tell you , if you don’t do it , you will regret it , do not be shy , an intelligent man who love you deeply will never leave you alone , he will want to spend the rest of his life with you forever and till eternity , yes most men will not accept it but all men are different the same with women.
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Source: Pereira Oluwabimpe
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