You met this beautiful lady at school , work , bus , church , name it all , you exchange contact , called each other on phones , you visited each other apartment or family house , went out on a few day , the relationship has been like a month , you have had couple of sex with him/her. The lady is emotional and you are just not bothered about family as the guy , you concern about sex and work which is good.
I realize since have been engage that there is no excuse to love and most men don't know what they want and the worth they have and they blame it on the lady because she is with another guy. To be honest if you really as a man want to settle down you will but most time you all get tied up with the sex and work you are interested in than the lady and when the lady leaves , no regret until in the next three or four years , you regret why and how you should have let such a wonderful lady slip off from you.
I will suggest before you break up any relationship , think twice.
Get to know that person for who he/she is.
Spend time with each other is beyond sex.
Communicate with each other.
Build each other up.
Encourage each other.
Plan your future and work towards it.
I am I impress by one of the most spiritual guy who is settling down and I am proud of him , he is about to settle down with a lucky woman. Yes, money is important but if you really want to be happy and have no regret, make the right decision and define what you truly want.