The Elders in Yoruba believe that " when a man truly love you , he will look for you not you doing the chase" He is a man and if he knows what he want , he will chase you all the way to your home and personal life. Ladies do not allow your self worth to be reduce to zero because of the love you have for a guy , if he does not love you , you cant change his mind , not even sex , let him be , one truth I find it hard to believe and accept.
A man that do not care about you will always be concern about his own self , lets hang out at my place , my joint , he want you to do what he likes not concern about yours that is a red flag, you don't need that kind of men in your life, all they want from you is SEX.
Distance is not an excuse to not having a relationship is about understanding , tolerance , patience and communication beyond the calls , text , making out time to see the person , you can get to know what goes on in the person life.
A man who truly love you deep down will be honest about his intention of where you guys stand if is marriage or not. You will not be confuse because he shows his love to you in various medium is not about the cute couples on social media . No matter the stomps in your relationship , he will go the extra mind to fight for you.
Stop being desperate - Wordsfrombimpe
A Yoruba adage says
"There are hundred men for a lady only one man will be her choice"
Ladies be wise , smart and careful.
Do not allow your feelings to control your self , be discipline , be in control of your life , never be dependent on any man because he will use that as a reward to have SEX which is wrong. A man that truly care even when you have or don't will lavish you whether low, middle or high class. He will not find it hard to support you and will never ask you for a pay back.
He will be there with you both good and bad times , he will cheer you up , he will bring you to the gospel , a man that does not love GOD , cannot LOVE you , be careful of such men , you can't change them , you can only pray for them , their mind is a made up.
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