Last two month I did a program based on relationship and the title was ; Where can you find the Perfect guy or lady? My guests said there are no perfect guy or lady , which I strongly agree.
Most guy will say the relationship you want is different from your fantasy , romance novels you read , the reality , you wont find all that description in a man and you need to be convince to avoid regretting or making mistake.
You said you want a rich man , not all men are rich just few who are lucky and privilege , also this kind of men who are rich , were diligent to get to where they are and if you want a man like that , you also have to be rich.
Stop comparing the man you are in a relationship with to a book that is not realistic.
Stop searching for a man who is famous?
The question you need to ask yourself? Where is the relationship going to take me to , am I going to marry him? have kids and be his wife?
Does he love me and he is proud to take good care of me. Does he look beyond my flaws and imperfections.
Where he is when I need him the most? is he the kind of guy that give up in a relationship? is he a keeper?
Does he love go and goes to church?
Does he study God words?
Does he pray?
Does he respect his mother?
Does he treat his family right so I can know if he will treat me right also?
Does he have a job that he loves? even though is not perfect the way he want it to be.
Does he have a talent?
Does he make me laugh?
Does he exercise discipline when he is around me?
is he caring and faithful to me?
Does he prove his love with actions everyday?
Does he make me happy and peaceful?
Does he forgive even when he finds it hard and let go of his past?
There are so many great things he has apart from what you really want so bad but if you want that love that keeps you awake all that and you realize , you can leave without that guy in your life , consider this questions and I hope you find that guy? and stop living a dream world that there is a perfect man, are you perfect?
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