Most Naija Men always believe that the reason why most ladies leave a relationship is two things, which is:
1 Money
2 Sex
Not all ladies are basically interested in the two things , you need to get to know her and what she truly want in that relationship.
Most ladies love it when the relationship is exciting and interesting not boring , is not just about the guy being decent but do you make her laugh are you there to support , are you both comfortable with each other.
Do you exactly know what is going on in our life? what is her dreams? what she loves ? what is her favorite things?
Did you get to know her before asking her for sex and blowjob.
Were you serious in that relationship and ready to commit and be that one?
Did you get to know her family?
There are so many reason why she left you and don't wish to come back because it is better to be single than to be in a relationship.
Where love does not exist , keep following.