I believe relationship should be really exciting and funny , there should be an attraction , compatibility one way or the other , is not just about being in the same religion.
Are you happy?
Are you confident with a high self esteem in the relationship?
Does he/ she know what they are suppose to do in that relationship without saying anything.
The relationship is it is exciting?
Does he make out time to see you?
Does he take charge as the man , oh I have got a place you will like.
Is he ready to invest in you and support your dreams.
To avoid hurting someone's emotion just be careful in the decision you make.