I understand the fact you don't want to be a single and the statistic about the population of men is small and that the population of women is more than the men.
All men are different , some MEN like to be chase for that kind of guy who is shy and find it really difficult to have a good conversation that is where you can come in ,if you know he is that kind of guy.
We lose interest in a desperate lady who always want to seek for our attention , we are not saying that you should over do your shakara but don't be DESPERATE , just be you , your simple self.
A friend of mine shared an experience of the fact that he invited a lady to his office and her outfit was crazy and awkward for that kind of environment with the exposure of cleavage and he just felt maybe she is the kind that he is going to fuck and walk out of her life with no burden but what happens to the lady , as for her she has gotten the man attention for that day and not even for a month neither a year.
There is nothing bad in visiting the guy , in AFRICA they might see it as being CHEAP but you are not and what will define you , is if you don't do the VISITING always , it should be calculated , how you go about DOING THAT but not always , let him miss you , he need to understand the important of him having you in his life.
We know what we want and we classify ladies in a category , which is:
1 KEEPER
2 FUCK TYPE
3 BITCH
1 Keeper: She is the kind of lady , we want to spend forever with, we share our visions with her and they are FOREVER , we HUNT for them, when we are ready to settle down and leave our bachelor lives because we want to be with her always and wont lose her because she is indeed a woman of substance ,who is someone that will keep us both good and bad and not let us go neither give up on us.
2 Fuck- Type: The kind of lady that we take to club , spend cash on her , give her alcohol and cigarette , she smokes and get drunk , then as a bad ass guy , fuck the shit out of her and fuck her that we don't remember her last name not even how we met , because she is NOTHING , she is the FUCK-TYPE and no EMOTIONS.
3 Bitch: The kind of lady that act like she does not need a man in her life , she is after our dick and money , no attachment but an agreement between us and when is over , move on and forget about the BITCH , she is independent and also dependent , she is proud , dramatic and emotional , she might have a cold look but within her she is a soft hearted lady who deserve a man who will look beyond her bitchy way and just love her gut.
Stop trying to be in our CAVE , we hate you when you are in our place , we want space , freedom to do men stuff , you also need to know that if we asking you out always , we want you to turn down our offer and don't care with that we can start caring more , we were bound to hunt for you and we will find you , we will own you not just your body but your heart and if I truly love you , I will chase you with desire , passion , love and a mission that I will always be that man and will treat you right and even though am not perfect , I will do my part to be that man for you.
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