Bimpe Diary: The Friendship Date That Turned Disloyalty
Based on
the author's true life event
It's been a long
that, I have been on a friendship date that was three years ago when a distant friend
of mine who came back from his trip was like, let's go out, and then, I chose
the restaurant. We went there and we took pics together and we went to his
house, which was my first time going to his house, looking all cosy and neat,
but we haven't yet talked about this friend.
We are here
to discuss the other friend I knew from a competition I won a business grant,
according to him, that was the beginning, he had a crush on me when we were
together in his room, and he was expressing his feelings. We are getting there.
Lets
start from the origin, the beginning of how we met, like I stated earlier it was
at the business grant, I was the top one and the winner and you know being a
winner, everyone want to be your friend and be part of your success which
includes the networking you get out of it, I didn’t just made sales alone from
the business grant, I also made sales networking with this group member and I remember
that he chatted me and was telling me about a job, he will like to refer me to
a friend, I did work with his friend there was a bit of conflict but at the end
resolution.
So we
used to talk like once in a while and maybe gist one another and view each
other story, until one day, I posted a pics of my food, fried bread which I learnt
how to make on youtube from a vlogger and sausage with noodles, I am such a
huge fan of food combo so he screenshotted it and then reposted it and he did
it like twice each time I post food combo and I would laugh out loud lol! Which
piqued my interest in it and started liking him as a friend, and I became more
sensitive in posting food content, and we are moving into the CURRENT event.
THE CURRENT
EVENT – THE FRIENDSHIP DATE
So I do check
out his story and I do react on WhatsApp and be like wow this women with big
asses and all, he would just laugh until last weekend which happen, last month and
I know some people will be like that is last month and its not current but to
me is still a current event actually because it happen recently, which I am getting
there and we chatted on one of those story reactions and the we click to the
point that he was asking me where is your location, which is fast and knowing
the history of me running away from men and avoiding date either intimate or
friendship, from the beginning, if you read carefully, I also stated three years
of not going out on a date with a guy and truly I didn’t even tell him how long
its been, I got to the destination a bit late, he was earlier before me to
arrived there.
So I had to
take a straight bike and it cost me more money but I was considerate and thoughtful
because I didn’t want him to stand there for hours and we both realize when we
met that we live close by and I have heard of his bus stop before and I do drive
across his road on bus or korope which we call tricycle in Nigeria.
We held
hands on road, I felt cute and it seem romantic and we got into the korope, I didn’t
mind about the fact that he had no car, he smell so good and I love his joggers
pant damn, men look so freaking good on that aside the fact that I get to take
a glimpse of feel the size of the gbola which didn’t happen guys, I have been
celibate for close to four years now and he was interested in me being by his
side to the point that he almost forgot the bus stop so I reminded him and we
got down and we entered into the restaurant, I was also considerate about him
not spending but you know men, when they want to show off they do it correct
especially Nigerian men, so I got fried rice, egg and some bottle water and he
was like we would head to supermarket to buy drink and then head to his lovely
bachelor home and he told me his siblings are around the corner.
The
supermarket we got the chivita the guy did spend a lot, I must commend him and
then we took a bike to his home and I met his sister, she is so pretty and she
is mature because I didn’t experience distraction and interruption and I did
tell him as well, he is so clingy and all romantic but I feel it was the sex he
was more into, I even did client training, I also took a pics of our friendship
date which I posted and got reactions but I remove it because of the way he treated
me at the long run, we are getting there.
I got home
late and he gave me tfare money, he sent it to my account, correct guy and
called to see if I had gotten home but before I went home, we had discussion
about me settling down in three month and he told me six months and I was like I
could reconsider because I knew you five years back and he express his feelings
telling me he has a huge crush on me that I am intelligent, calm and pretty and
he like me a lot and will not want disloyalty and this words were like I think I
found my one and the reality tv series I was looking forward to became a deep
thought.
I contemplated for days regarding being honest
to me and truly, I am indeed a loyal and a honest lady and I reach out to my
siblings telling them I met someone they seem happy for me but gave me tips and
was like you are right regarding being honest about telling him to avoid him
seeing this on social media and then I made the decisions and that includes his
consent as my man to be on not going and I sent a dm to the reality tv series,
they didn’t reply, they must have been disappointed and I also had other
reasons like not missing the church service and I cant afford to spend on
clothes and shoe for a one day event and I cant face public reality series
relationship where all eyes are on you, I sent him a screenshot and he ignore
that part, few days later he started acting weird and his communication was not
like before.
So I sense
intuitively that he must have lost interest and then the dream came and I saw
myself in one corner sitting and looking all sad and I watch him and another
lady who is fair and tall by his side and they were cuddling together and I knew
in the dream, God made me realize he has a relationship and I now realize the
friendship date to him was to have xxx with me but due to my celibacy he could
not.
I sat in one
corner of the sitting room, and I could not cry; the tears no longer came like they
used to be, and I know that’s a sign that the next time I shed a tear, it will
be a tear of joy and amen to that. I sent him a message after manager is
following up, if we are together and I explain not really like he has been
distant towards me and I am the type of lady that have high self esteem and self
respect to not force myself over a man and I have the slogan that says if its
meant to be, it will be.
He didn’t reply
to my text, and I also found out he has been posting on social media, and he
did unfollow me on Instagram, and I did both of us a favour and unfollow him
back, remove him from my group, block him and delete his number.
I don’t regret
being honest and loyal, I only regret doing it for the wrong person who pretended
that he could be the one. I respect and admire those who are straightforward
about their intentions and act on them.
I know
most people reading this blog post would have been maybe you should not have
posted his pics or told him and just went for the reality tv series, you guys
could have still been together but to answer your inner most deep questions the
truth is not me but him and if it was meant to be it will be, no matter what.
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