Lol don't d me is all just in my imagination , the inspiration to write is looking at my past relationship with various guys , true life experience in a relationship there are three words that need to be discuss which is the headline or title of my blog .
Love , Lust and Sex .
Love: Most guys are fond of using this words like I love you and will treat you good and ladies confuse it with love and according to him is all lust.
I am not saying all guys but they are rare.
I dated good and bad guys.
Love is not just about the word by saying you do , can you stick to the person? even when he or she is weird , crazy , geek , boring , unattractive , has pot belly , flat at the behind , body odour , mouth odour , has his/her flaw .
According to my theory with my list am not sure some people can stick to someone that have a mouth odour or body odour.
Love is not changing the person , you cant change someone but he/she can be inspire by what you do and try to amend.
I dated a guy who has a mouth odour , very good physique , I stayed with him , though I love kissing but not over kissing he does that too much and I didn't tell him ,he observe and started working on it , he told me mine and I did the same wont tell you is personal.
I also dated a guy who has pot belly , I loved is pot belly .
love is looking beyond the flaws , scars and trying to appreciate the person by loving with actions.
Lust : I will not categorized guys as the only one who has that attitude of lusting over a lady , ladies do that a lot is not as obvious as guys.
There are so many guys I cant count I have this attitude of lusting after their body I tried to control my thought but their body , scent is killing makes you want to have a feel of it.
Lust is not having sex with someone but you are doing it with your thought and eyes and you are like oh my gosh.
it can be the lips , eyes , body , butt , boobs and others.
Love is not lust .
lust is a temporary thing it comes and go that's why some people have one night stand and that's all without looking back.
Lust is a lustful desire you have for someone in the scripture is define as sin , i strongly believe and I follow the teachings of Paul instead of having lust over someone , get married to that person with love by getting to know the person.
Lust is not getting to know anyone but getting to know the skin , body and scent that keeps you awake at night.
I wont be surprise if a lady get wet unconsciously and consciously and a guy get hard unaware and knows also it happen in so many ways I cant deny that.
I was inside bus and one sexy guy entered the bus sitting beside me I was not comfortable until I got down from my bus stop I realize that I was wet , I had it bad and needed to refresh myself and thought.
A lady shared an experience of her on a bike with a guy , the guy was really hard and he had erection and it was so shocking to the lady.
Lust has no feelings.
Lust is an addiction if is not control.
Sex : I know so many of you are waiting for me to get to this part .
Sex is a sweet thing that gives pleasure for just five minute , five seconds it depends .
it has a consequence when you are with the wrong person who will dump you like a thrash or you wanted it but still have that emotion.
Sex is not love , is a connection that bond two lovers together .
Some people say love is cheap and they prefer the word make love is based on act of great feelings you have for the person , you get to know what the person likes or don't like.
The truth is this most people have sex for various reason to satisfy their sexual desire , relief from stress , connection/bonding between two lovers , break heart , infect infection/disease to someone , money , fame and others
I have come to realize that most guys don't love it when they are being used as a sex object the same goes with ladies not all.
it hurt a lot , I believe if you don't love someone don't try to sugar coat words to people all in the name of getting sex.
No one is perfect , I don't judge people who have had it many times we all have our history but the beauty of it is when we are with someone who value us .
Most relationship that don't last , men going out looking for sex is because it was not built on love but on sex.
If someone truly love you will not want to hurt you or let you down.
I will love you to take this quote "love knows no bound" if someone love you we surely wait for you no matter what so don't be deceive.
It is better to stay single and prepare yourself for that person than be addicted to it there is a consequence.
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