There is a difference between making love to someone and having sex with that person.
I was having a discussion with a male friend and he said that if he is having sex with a lady it means he loves her.
Which to me I don't believe is love because most guys go into relationship because of SEX.
Though not all men but they are rare ,sex is not love ,it builds love but is a bond between two person getting to know each other sexually.
Most guys do tell ladies , if you love me have sex with me , which to me is just a persuasive act not love , if you love someone you wait for the right time though we all have our perspective about sexual purity.
The same goes with ladies not all ladies have sex for love , it can be that they love it or relieve from stress not that they love the person.
What causes heart break to most ladies is that they love the guy and give him the cookies believing he loves them which to me is just sex and nothing else even if he buys you gift and flowers is just a means of getting laid to you.
That is why if you are in relationship define it not all relationship is base on love is base on lust which is sex.
Most men stay in a relationship maximum two weeks and when they are tired of the sexual partner they move on to another.
The question is why do most men reject their babies claiming is not me what about other guys? it was not love , if a guy truly loves a lady it will be a joy of happiness to him.
He would be proud to let the world know.
At last am a Father!
That is to show is the marriage kind not all men choose to be the marriage guy they are players who break heart.
According to most men they said what actually leads them to breaking ladies heart is that their heart have been broken before.
We are all different and should not carry the mentality of our past experience to the present relationship , forgive , forget and move on by being positive and not negative.
I have a friend who is a broadcast journalist he shared an experience of him with a lady at the elevator they had this sexual tension and they had to fuck their selves it was unexpected , it was not love , it is just sex.
Ladies be careful when you make a decision in your relationship sex is not love , it does not define love and make you get the man is part of it , don't be deceive and fool the same goes with guys.
We have all been heartbroken , we are imperfect , we make mistakes but we should not punish innocent ones because of our past mistakes.
Why don't you make a goal of changing your attitude towards your relationship don't just have sex with the person , it hurt and is painful get to know the person and appreciate that person.
Maybe you can find love is up to you.
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