Most times we get the definition of dating wrong , some people believe dating involve having sex with someone you truly care about. Dating is a platonic friendship no sexual intercourse is allow but people do it , which is their choice.
The best kind of relationship you can have is a platonic relationship , according to research it last more than a sexual relationship for a week or month. You get to discover what the person like , dislike , favorite food , favorite color , if you are of the same religion , ethnics , opinions about life.
Dating that always involve sex has a consequence it might not be now but the future and if you are victim of indulging in having sex on your first date , you can change is not going to be easy but I believe you can do it.
Avoid asking intimate question it gives you the urge to indulge in sexual activity , talk about topics that affect lives , play games , learn a skill together , go for an excursion , read books together and share your idea , attend motivational event that can lead to self growth and improvement, if such person can’t hold on ask the person to leave , is your choice and life but a wise man told me” if any choice is place before you , choose the right”.
As for me , I will choose the right , I am so happy that am with someone that share the same standard and gospel with me ,I strongly believe in and it is the best kind of relationship because you find , joy , peace and happiness and you cant tell if they are the one you spend your life with but what you both guys do together that is positive and of good report make it mutual and strong with no attachment.
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