Today at work , I was with one of my customers and I wanted him to buy laugh so I was curious to know if the handsome customer is married because the last time I saw him , he was with a beautiful , tall , fair and hot lady with big boobs.
So , he said" I am not married and am not yet ready to settle down" I kept on imagining if that sexy lady actually knows the man see her as a fling and at a point the lady was furious to my customer which is her boo and he was laughing and I just remember my ex who usually act that way when he does something and is a sign that he does not give a shit about me.
On Friday , I was with a friend who also shared the same thing that he is not yet ready to settle neither is he balance right now in his 30's and we have so many Naija men who are not in a hurry to settle down because they do not know what they truly want or they don't want to suffer so they try to make a lot of money in preparation to the future.
That same Friday , I was with my sister and she shared her story of a friend of her who is a male who is so interested in settling down and she said that she gave him an advice that he should not be in a hurry that there are lot of responsibility involved in marriage that he need to balance himself then after if the lady cant wait then they can settle down that if she should approach her friend and discuss her friend matter , he will just be laughing because he is a married man and he knows the bugata e dey carry , which is a word that means responsibility that is on his head.
The truth is all men are different , some men do not believe in love or marriage they are more interested in having sex and flexing their lives , while some men are deeply fascinated by marriage that they are working towards having their family.
The word " I am not ready to settle down " for a Nigeria man convey a lot of meanings that you might not understand.
A friend of mine who is a guy express a deep thought about the reason why most men are not married and he said" some men do not really know what they want and they are interested in the pussy but eventually when the lady is pregnant for them they step into fatherhood and become more mature , serious and ready to settle down and sometimes when they find that particularly lady that make them feel really good and their world complete they are ready to settle down.
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