In our society , Pastors and Parent make decision for the marriage of their children which to me is not right.
I don't value the idea of a pastor/ parent making decision about the fact of you as an adult choosing who you are to spend the rest of your life with forever. The truth is are they going to be the one to manage your home? or when they were married did any pastor or their parent choose who they are to marry or if it apply to them does not mean is mandatory for them.
Marry the person who truly know you and will take good care of you without regret for instance- "had i known" there are no perfect couples neither is there a perfect marriage expect flaws and challenges to happen they are what build your relationship to become stronger.
I get furious when i hear words about things like this happening in our society and we keep having increase rate of divorce cases , depression and others.
We need to change our mindset and share this with friends and dont forget to follow my blog for more interesting stories.