I attended David Christian Centre Church with my friend OPE who is a full-time member in her church and that was my third time of going to Church and I was deeply inspired and indeed blessed to always be there.
The Pastor introduce the programme for the night and he laughed and we all followed by doing the same thing because it is an interesting topic for both married and singles.
Many of us see “sex” as a normal thing and most times people forget the consequences of their actions when they indulge in it.
I understand that no one is perfect and sometimes you are horny and need to satisfied your sexual desires but that should be applied when you are joint with your man or woman.
According to him, he said; music videos you can watch them today and be normal”.
They are affecting your sensibility.
We debate whether prostitution is right/wrong and you see in some part of the country it is Legal and right in their own eyes. Just the same way weed is Legal.
The consequences are the same God still expect we learn how to possess our vessels. [ SEXUAL PURITY]
“Living sexually pure is God’s opinion and not what pastors or people are saying or indulging in it because it does not change the consequences”.
Now, what are the seven sex lies men say to lure women to their bed, they are:
1 IS JUST SEX
The sexual act is not just sex, it is physical sex.
The truth is the maker of sex made it for a reason.
1st Corinthians 6: 16
“THERE IS MORE TO SEX THAN MERE SKIN ON SKIN, SEX IS AS MUCH SPIRITUAL AS IT IS PHYSICAL, WHICH IS BEING STATED IN THE SCRIPTURE THAN THE TWO WILL BECOME ONE”.
Which means joining with the person for the rest of your lives, research says that the person whoever you have sex with deposit his DNA inside of you.
I understand that a man will connect with something he likes, for instance: football, food, sex and work.
“ANOTHER INTERESTING FACT IS THAT YOU ARE JOINT WITH SOMEONE YOU DON’T KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE THEY ARE JOINT WITH”.
1ST Corinthians 6: 18
“There is a sense in which sexual sins are different from all others, in sexual sins, we violate the sacredness if our own bodies, these bodies that were made for becoming one with another “.
Our bodies are our covenant-keeping records, God will forgive you but there will be an impact.
Vs 19: “Or didn’t you realize that your body is a sacred place, the place of the Holy-spirit”.
Vs 20:” God owns the whole works so let people see God in you and through your body”.
“BREAK UP WITHOUT SEX IS EASY, BREAK UP WITH SEX IS VERY DIFFICULT “
1ST Corinthians 6: 16-20
2 SEX IS A PROOF OF LOVE
If sex is how men want you to prove your love to them, why are all the prostitute not in love?
“MEN CAN SLEEP WITH ANYBODY”
Sex has nothing to prove that it is love.
2 Samuel 13: 1
“And it came to pass after this that Absalom the son of had a fair…”
“THE WAY A MAN SEES YOU BEFORE SEX, IT IS NOT THE SAME”.
According to research: “Single men are more, unlike other generations, in these generations there is free, sex”
The worst mistake that a woman should do is move into someone you are not married to.
I have experience that and eventually I was engaged that was three years back and I was in love and I felt he felt the same way but it was all for his sexual desires and not to spend the rest of his lives with me and have moved on from my past mistakes.
“Don’t even cook for the man, if he wants to cook, let him cook because you are not his slaves neither as he makes you his woman, being a girlfriend is different is being his wife, get that into your head”.
If ladies can do national lock up the world will be a better place so please don’t be a fool to any man and apply sense.
When a man is sexually aroused, he can do anything, the moment he is sexually satisfied, he can do anything to get away from you.
2 Samuel 13: 15
“No man should be seeing your nakedness”
3 Test Driving
That moment when a man says:
“I need to test you in bed to know if you can perform in bed and have sexual skills that can be useful when we are together as one”
YOU CAN TEST DRIVE A HUMAN BEING WITHOUT TESTING THEIR SOUL
You need to let the man know your body is not for test driving.
If he says: How can I marry someone has I will not test?
Sister if he says that, it is time to move on with your life and be with someone that will not focus on testing you but spending the rest of your lives with you.
“THE TRUTH IS SOME OF YOU ARE LEARNING SKILLS THAT YOU NEVER NEED”
Marriage sex is different from single-sex, another truth you need to know is marriage sex is not the movies you watch for instance: FIFTY SHADES OF GREY that you break plates and others.
To people are supposed to be virgins before they marry, which means they are learning from each other body, while some people are doing over – syllabus.
4 NOBODY WILL BE HURT
One of the biggest lies a man will tell you to lure you to bed is that nobody will be hurt.
There are many ways you as a lady will be hurt
- Disease
- Broken Homes
- Sexual Addiction
- Unwanted Pregnancy
SEX CHAT
ONE MAN: - LADY ONE - LADY TWO - LADY THREE - LADY FOUR - LADY FIVE AND OTHERS.
That is why we have many broken people and many broken marriages.
Nigeria is the second highest HIV/ AIDS infected Country.
Imagine you getting married to the man using the sex chart example and how the two of you have travelled to many countries.
UNWANTED PREGNANCY
Most men in prison were raised by single mums, there are many mothers who feel their child destroyed their lives.
“MEN THAT LIKE WOMEN, MOST OF THEM DON’T SUCCEED”
Keeping yourself is easier than sleeping around, most of the people that call themselves sexual addict started sleeping around with one person.
6 EVERYONE IS DOING IT
That is another big lie, everyone is doing it, the truth is not everyone indulges in it and we still have virgins just because you doing it does not give you the right to say that everyone is having sex without getting married.
We have people who want to keep their selves for their future spouse.
7 WE ARE GOING TO MARRY ANYWAY
Having sex is not about love or passion, it is about both of you honouring God.
ADVISE TO LADIES
HAVE SELF-CONTROL: If you can’t have self-control when you are single, when you get married you will need more of self-control.
Self-control is a standard for any human being, living with that person for a longer period of years, marriage does not change anything but it is lack of priority.
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