I have one particular friend that I truly like and he is my close friend and I had a deep conversation with him and I asked him a question, which was:
BIMPE: SHORT MAN WHY ARE YOU NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN?
SHORT MAN: I AM NOT FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT AND READY TO SETTLE DOWN ALSO I HAVE NOT SEEN THAT PARTICULAR ONE THAT CAUGHT MY ATTENTION.
A short man, who is my friend, he is good looking, clean from head to toe, he has a very good stable job that pays him well, he is spiritual but not deep and he is rich.
I don’t feel money is the reason why he is not ready to settle down, he still wants to enjoy his life and have some fun with beautiful women not because he has not found the particular one, he has but he is not ready to be with one woman for the rest of his lives and the same is applicable to men in our generations.
Reasons, why men don’t want to settle, are:
1 MONEY: He needs to have a huge amount of money in his bank account in other words he needs to be financially independent.
2 FAMILY: His family are not satisfied with his kind of woman and will not want to participate with him if he does not go along with their own kind of woman.
3 RELIGION: His religion requires him to marry from his church and not non-members outside his religion also he finds it difficult to move to another religion for his woman.
4 BRIDEPRICE: The huge amount of money that parents demand from the men that choose to marry their women.
5 FEAR: The men are scared of the future that if they marry this particular woman, will the love still be there? When he has nothing will she be there for him?
6 LOVE NOT to LUST: There is a difference between loving a woman and lusting after a woman.
All men like good things but they want to be with a woman that they truly love from the depth of their heart and don’t want to make the mistake of setting down base on lust instead of love.