The world
definition of a beautiful lady is someone with a model facial looks, perfect eye-brows,
perfect big lips, pointed nose, perfect eyes, a lady that has no pimples or
dark spot but a baby face like Barbie and others lol!
A lady that
has great physique, tall, slim, curvy, tiny waist , big tits , big ass , fit
with abs e.t.c
Social media
is quite intimidating filled with societal pressure on beauty, fashion, fitness
and others.
Women want
to imitate the beauty of models on social media, magazines and media
personality so they can attract the perfect guy and I know that a man who truly
loves you won’t categorize physical beauty as the first thing on his list
because what about happens to intellectual beauty? Mental beauty? Spiritual beauty?
I will explain the three factors I mention starting from:
· Intellectual Beauty: My definition of
intellectual beauty is someone who is not just physically beautiful but has a
great intellect which means you are sound and knowledgeable about business, technology,
education, family and others.
You are not like some women who believe their beauty should be the source
of their income and is not an insult to those women but you are the type that
want to impact the world using her skills like hairdressing, fashion designing,
repairing of electronic devices, selling of clothes, cosmetics and others
In career like accounting, banking, teaching, engineering, medicine, business,
media, sports, writer, blogger and others.
You can go out and represent the world, family as an intellectual beauty
that is one aspect of beauty.
You are a product of academic and vocational product , it is not about
the fact you are rich or average class kind of lady but you are doing great in
whatever field you are into and not truly bother about having a perfect body or
face , you truly love yourself and works and kudos to women in this category also
you can share your thought on the comment box.
· Mental Beauty:
Most ladies
have issues with their mentality , I was watching this morning program on
Youtube and have seen several trying to be someone else and not themselves in
particular and that saddens my heart and I keep wondering what kind of message
do they truly want to pass down to their generation.
“To become someone else
“
Which is
very bad, ladies with scars and have been abused, mothers and their bodies not
being the same that it was when they were single without no children.
Also, the
aspect of a lady who can controls her emotions , I will rate myself 60% percent
and the reason is this I am trying so hard not to react to things and be easily
angry both at work , family , my apartment , relationship life and personal
life and I can say am getting better but is not easy and each day I try to
improve on that but I can also tell am that lady who don’t give a damn and won’t
tolerate bullshit or crap have held for so long for the sake of peace.
I will
confront and train you to be a better person lol! That’s me and I am a good
person but very emotional which makes because I am human!
Mental beauty
is a lady who think straight emotionally and mentally , most ladies are psychos
and some of them don’t know have come across so many beautiful ladies and I try
my best to talk sense to those women but some listen why some don’t , they try
to imitate other ladies on how they look or dress which is bullshit and we
ladies are fond of doing that , you see a lady on social media wearing
expensive wig , bag and clothes and you want to be like that woman! And you
disturb the hell of your boyfriends and husband by posting on your status for
instance:
“I WANT”
What the fuck? When I see all those stuff I get
so irritated, ladies trying to slay just to be like other women or be favorite
to be classify as their friends that slay and is popular or social media.
I have one
absurd friend like that she used my name for her personal life and a nickname
for herself “PERRY” and her local
name is Chidinma and when I view her status I feel so bad for her because she
is living a fake life and don’t give a fuck , she has nothing to offer the
world apart from her God given voice and she is lazy , if you see a determine ,
you can know it and feel it , she parades around young men who are also a
living a fake life and she knows nothing about those men but flaunt a lifestyle
that is not permanent but she is beautiful but intellectually , mentally and
spiritually she is zero.
· Spiritually Beauty:
Do you have
a close relationship with God whether Christian or Muslim? Ponder that
questions and answer it sincerely despite your imperfections.
I realize is
when things get too hard or when life treats your fuck up most ladies remembers
God.
They find it
hard to pray or study God word; they centred their life by living a worldly life
forgetting God until when they are face with bad consequences by the wrong
choices they made when they were young.
Most ladies
who have done several abortions, join bad gangs in prostitution , crimes and
others.
Spiritually
Beauty I am referring to that beautiful woman who truly loves God and serve him
with all her heart , soul and body and does the same for her society , family ,
colleagues and those around her.
She is a
light every where she goes, she is a true definition of a woman who is
beautiful in and out.
She is
honest and a lady of integrity , we need more women who don’t see beauty as
just physical but these three factors that are mention they are classify as
women who are beautiful not just physically but intellectually , mentally and
spiritually and I am trying to be that woman and each day and I encourage you
reading my blog to take a step and be that woman not just one who cares about
her looks but can make a difference to the woman that is a woman of beauty and I
am proud of you.
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