I know right
, the headline is catching but there are good reasons why you should never have
sex with someone you don't love and most of the responses are from people I interviewed for you to be
clarify.
Bimpe: Why
do you have sex with a lady that does not love you?
Tobi: I have
sex with a lady I don't love because:
1
I
desire the person
2
Charm:
I can’t resist the person
The lady you don’t love
, I use her for my pleasure.
I describe it as a fake
love to get the pleasure I want – Tobi
Fake love it is
applicable to both men and women, is not love but a pretence, infatuation on the
person base on what you are seeing. – J
BIMPE: WHAT
IS THE SOLUTION TO WHY YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE YOU DON’T LOVE?
DORA [CONTENT
CREATOR]
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Is
better not to look intensely, if not you will lust after the person body.
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Is
not about checking, whatever you see you get satisfied with what you want.
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Side
effect
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It’s a men thing.
JOSH [JOURNALIST]
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Some
sex leads to pleasure
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Some
sex leads to marriage
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Women
are wicked and what are my reasons for that statement:
“ A woman had sex with
me and is because she wanted to get her pleasure not because she likes me as a
guy or have an interest in me but is just sex to her”
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It’s
a two-way street
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Women
don’t separate sex from emotions.
“They can
sleep with men that are not in love with them and complain that he broke their
heart and to the guy is just sex”.
TOBI [CONTENT
CREATOR]
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Depending
on the individual
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Sex is separate the same is applicable to love
and marriage.
JOSH [JOURNALIST]
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The world we live in, the men demand from sex more than women but we are changing
day by day that sex is now equal, it is not just the men that demand sex, we
are in the liberation that makes it equal.
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It
is wrong for people to mix sex and love.
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The
original realm talks about the purpose that sex is for procreation.
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It
is not a complex thing, you can live with a guy and not sleep with the person
and you can also live with the person and have sex with the individual.
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I
repeat “ stop equating love for sex”
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Most
ladies believe that before they have sex with a guy they must have been with
the person for more than four or five months, which is funny because you will
still, have sex!
“If someone is in love
with you , sex does not count”
What is
love?
Love is the decision to be with someone despite the flaws, good traits, you make the
person, you love your primary purpose which can also be your friends, family
e.t.c
GOD IS LOVE – MR SHARAFA [
JOURNALIST]
“ EVEN IN MARRIAGE, SEX IS NOT
IMPORTANT, I AM MARRIED MAN WITH THREE children BUT SEX COULD BE PART OF WHAT
MAKE THE COUPLES LOVE ONE ANOTHER BUT are NOT THE KEY THING”.
JOSH – [JOURNALIST]
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If
you want to sleep with the person, don’t add the emotions as a reasons
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If
you are in a religious person – obey your religion , if you are not a religious
person, don’t let konji kill you, lol!
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Be
honest with yourself.